FAQs

  • What is spiritual formation?

    Spiritual formation is the intentional process of becoming more like Christ - allowing God to shape your inner life, character, and capacity to love. It's not about trying harder to be good or checking off religious tasks. It's about creating space and rhythms in your life where the Holy Spirit can do transforming work. Through practices like prayer, scripture meditation, silence, and reflection, we open ourselves to God's presence and allow Him to form us from the inside out. It's less about self-improvement and more about surrender and receptivity.

  • What does spiritual care actually look like?

    Spiritual care is deeply relational and responsive to what each person needs. It might look like sitting in silence with someone who's grieving. Offering prayer or scripture for someone seeking comfort. Helping someone process anger at God. Facilitating a meditation or breath practice for someone overwhelmed by anxiety. Creating space for someone to tell their story and be truly heard.

  • How is spiritual formation different from Bible study or church attendance?

    Bible study and church attendance are important, but spiritual formation goes deeper. You can know a lot about God without actually knowing God intimately. Spiritual formation emphasizes experiential encounter with God - not just learning information, but developing practices that help you abide in His presence, hear His voice, and be transformed by relationship with Him. It's the difference between studying a marriage manual and actually being married. Both matter, but one is relational and formative in a way the other isn't.

  • I'm so busy - do I really have time for spiritual formation?

    Here's the truth: if you're too busy for spiritual formation, you're too busy. The practices I teach aren't about adding more to your overflowing plate. They're about learning to be present with God in your daily life - five minutes of breath prayer while your coffee brews, lectio divina before bed, a midday pause to notice where you've seen God. Spiritual formation doesn't require retreating from life; it teaches you to find God in the middle of it. And ironically, these practices often help us move through life with more peace, clarity, and less anxious striving.

  • What is a Chaplain?

    A chaplain is a trained spiritual care provider who offers emotional and spiritual support during life's most challenging moments - illness, grief, crisis, transition, or simply the need for someone to listen without judgment. Unlike pastors who serve a specific congregation, chaplains serve in broader contexts: hospitals, hospices, military settings, universities, prisons, or as private practitioners. Chaplains walk with people through suffering, help them explore questions of meaning and faith, and offer presence when words fall short.

  • What's the difference between chaplaincy and pastoral ministry?

    Pastoral ministry typically serves a specific faith community and involves teaching, preaching, and leading worship. Chaplaincy is more focused on one-on-one spiritual care and meeting people exactly where they are - whatever their faith background or beliefs. Chaplains are trained to honor each person's spiritual journey without imposing their own. A chaplain provides compassionate presence and helps people access their own sources of strength, hope, and meaning.

  • Is chaplaincy the same as therapy or counseling?

    No, though there's overlap. Therapists address mental health using clinical frameworks and interventions. Chaplains address spiritual and existential questions: Why is this happening? What gives my life meaning? How do I find peace in suffering? Where is God in this? Chaplains offer presence, prayer, ritual, and sacred listening. Many people benefit from both therapy and spiritual care - they address different dimensions of being human.

  • How does Sacred Rhythms Ministry support my spiritual formation?

    Sacred Rhythms Ministry offers accessible, practical tools for developing a contemplative life with God. Through guided meditations on YouTube and Insight Timer, I walk you through biblical meditation, breath prayer, and practices for anxiety and sleeplessness - grounding you in scripture while teaching you to quiet your mind and abide in God's presence. My annual retreats offer deeper immersion in contemplative practices with community. Everything I create is designed to help you establish sustainable spiritual rhythms that nourish your soul and draw you closer to Christ - even in the chaos of everyday life.

  • Why are you pursuing chaplaincy specifically?

    For over 20 years, I've worked in federal HR as a conflict coach, mediator, and investigator - sitting with people in their hardest moments, helping them navigate suffering and find a way forward and 10 years in the health and wellness space, teaching contemplative practices for the mind and body. God has been preparing me for this work all along. Seminary and chaplaincy training are giving me the theological depth and clinical pastoral education to offer this care more formally and fully. My calling is to integrate contemplative spiritual practices with compassionate presence, helping people find wholeness in body, soul, and spirit - especially in seasons of crisis, transition, and searching.